The Loss That Led to My Greatest Discovery
The Loss
I was devastated. I couldn’t believe the relationship was over. I was convinced she was the answer to my prayers. I had stepped out in faith and truly believed I was walking in God's will. Everything seemed to be in alignment, and there were confirmations everywhere I looked.
So you can imagine my heartbreak and confusion when everything began to unravel. I was left questioning everything — including my faith. Had I truly heard God? Or had I mistaken my own thoughts, emotions, or desires for His direction?
The loss of the relationship was brutal, but it was the blow to my faith that hit me the hardest. How could I get something that important so wrong? And how could I ever trust myself to hear God accurately again?
The Discovery
It was in the depth of my pain and confusion that I realized I was missing something — and I had to find out what it was.
Over time, I came to understand that the issue wasn’t a lack of faith or willingness to obey. I was always willing to step out in faith when I believed God was calling me to do something, but I didn’t always have confidence in knowing what He was saying.
What I needed was a process — something that would help me learn how to hear from God more clearly and consistently over time. I needed a practical way to slow down, listen, and discern what I believed God was saying before making life-altering decisions.
That realization changed everything.
The Process
This realization inspired me to create a simple, practical process for recording and tracking my prayers — a way to see patterns over time that would help me learn to hear and discern the voice of God more clearly.
I thought of it kind of like a spiritual GPS (God Positioning System), helping me navigate life with greater clarity and peace.
As I began applying this process, I noticed a shift in my prayer life. Instead of second-guessing, striving, or relying on emotion alone, I began learning how to hear His voice with greater clarity and confidence.
What Happened Next
My prayers shifted from one-way requests into an interactive, daily conversation with God. What started as a desire to hear from God blossomed into a relationship with Him beyond what I had ever imagined.
The fruit that followed has been profound. I’ve been building a history with Him for over seven years now and it has truly transformed the way I live, make decisions, and relate to others. I’ve experienced His guidance, provision, and peace in ways I never thought possible.
The Call To Help Others
Many of my family and friends were seeing the radical changes happening in my life and wondering what I had discovered that caused it. They saw the peace and confidence I was walking in, and they wanted to know how they could do the same.
That's when I realized I wasn't alone in my struggles. Many of them had the desire to step out in faith, but they lacked the confidence in hearing from God just like I had.
What began as something I created out of necessity slowly became something I felt called to share. So I started sharing it with friends and family, and I watched as many of them used it to hear from God and grow in their relationship with Him as well.
Sharing The Process
When I realized that if this process had helped those closest to me in such a profound way, I needed to make it available to as many people as possible.
So, I’ve taken everything I’ve learned over the past seven years and distilled it into a short, five-module course designed to teach this 7 step process in a clear, practical way.
This is the first time I’m offering it to the public, and I’m excited to see how God uses it to transform lives.